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Tips on creating new rewards by playing the money saving game

Saving money is just as easy as spending money when you save a little at a time. Have you ever considered making a budget and thought you had more money to save until you realized that you spend more on gas, food and extras? Spending and saving money are simple habits that we develop. The same way we get in the habit of stopping for coffee on the way to work, we can just as easily get in the habit of making coffee at home and taking time to read the newspaper before leaving the house. There are many articles written on theories and plans for budgeting money. As you consider them, you may find something that speaks to you and makes sense. However, you decide to budget and save to get ahead, doing something is better than nothing and every big goal is reached by many small steps.

Budgets and discretionary spending money

Discretionary spending is supposed to be the use of money on little things we want here and there after our primary financial needs have been met. When you write out a monthly budget of your primary financial needs, do you include money to be stashed away for savings or a rainy-day fund? If not, you might think again about calling “extra” money “discretionary” when you have no savings.

How much do you need to save for unexpected and future expenses such as retirement? It all depends on what you really need to live. The people who maintain high standards of living in luxury will require significantly more money in savings and retirement, than do those who live conservatively. One budget does not fit everyone, but there are a few guidelines, including how much money you might consider spending on your housing, for example.

Tips on budgeting and creating saving habits

In the article, How to Budget Your Money With the 50/20/30 Guideline, there are tips and examples of budgets that consider your goals and help you get ahead.

Habits and reinforcers, are they key to many smart personal savings plans. Just as we form habits of getting our coffee from our own machine or at a coffee shop on the way to work, we can form habits of stashing money away instead of spending to get a reward. When we spend money buying things and consuming we trigger the reward center in our brain. What if instead of instant rewards, we look closer into the reward of instantly increasing our power to buy something in the future?

Spend money investing in yourself. We all get bored and may want a distraction from time to time. These are the moments when we spend money doing something to entertain ourselves or take our minds of other things. Instead of running out and spending money on something you don’t need, spend the same amount on yourself by putting that money into a savings account. The next time you want to spend some money and earn a reward, take a drive to the bank and deposit some more money to your savings account. Your teller receipt will keep showing your growing balance.

Reinforcing positive spending habits and being proud of yourself

Ask yourself, would you rather have that money building in your savings or the other thing or activity you would have spent the money on? Even if you only save money every other time you want to spend money, you may choose to save more often than you spend.

As you continue finding little ways to save more money here and there you can watch your savings continue increasing, and that gives you the same reward sensation as buying or consuming something you like. Just as you can plant a garden, watch it grow and enjoy its benefits, you may feel very protective and proud of that money you were able to save.

Next, ask yourself how you can find some more money in your budget to add to your savings. By spending a little time and energy you can negotiate reduced rates for your household and utility bills – there may be easily be $100 or more you can find to save by simply reducing your monthly bills. As you continue finding more ways to cut spending and increase savings, you are reinforcing good habits and giving yourself a greater reward.

Spending and saving money are habits and after a bankruptcy, you can create some fantastic new habits that can lead you directly to financial success!

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Lottery winners next door: Rich neighbors can lead to your bankruptcy

Keeping up with the Joneses is one thing, but what happens when you’re keeping up with the Joneses who just won the Powerball? There have been several reports and articles written about the negative impact the lottery has on prizewinners. People who hit the jackpot tend to attract lost uncles and friends from years past who may be down on their luck. In many cases lottery winners feel guilty for having so much money without doing anything other than buying a lottery ticket, and they start giving it away. After a while, the money out the door can take on the effect of a snowball gaining size and momentum as it rolls downhill. Poor, poor lottery winner some say, nevertheless, the stories are there and they don’t stop with the lottery winners. A new report indicates the neighbors of lottery winners may be in trouble too.

The new study by the Wall Street Journal links a rise in bankruptcies to lottery winners nearby.

Research compiled and reviewed in the study of the affect of lottery winners on a neighborhood shows that people who live near someone who won the lottery is significantly more likely to file for bankruptcy.[i] The study suggests a strong tendency of members of a community or neighborhood to keep up with the lifestyles led by their neighbors and peers, “Income inequality induces poorer neighbors to consumer more visible (rather than invisible) commodities to signal their abilities to “keep up with the Joneses” to their richer neighbors.[ii]

As people seem to be willing to leverage everything they have to buy the best cars and luxury items, the prices seem to keep rising. If, for example, people will pay $70,000 for a luxury car, the luxury car makers are going to price them accordingly. Reality television may be to blame, in addition to flashy lottery winners, where “Real Housewives” in destination locations like Beverly Hills, drive six-figure valued cars as if it is no big deal. If Hollywood sets the standard for being fancy and successful, people in other cities may start to mimic what they see on television and strive to show their friends and neighbors that they are just as able and successful as the people on reality television.

People do not earn the incomes we think they do, and we have more income than we realize.

In the actual real world, average salaries are not as high as many people assume. Here, in the Chicago area, salaries are measurably higher than other areas in the Midwest, but if you take a walk down Michigan Avenue on any given day, you might think that everyone in Chicago won the lottery. The reality is that the people in the fanciest of clothes could be from out of town or the suburbs, and decided to wear their best and be a spectacle on the Miracle Mile. The “rich” people you may see and wonder if they are lottery winners or well-paid professionals, might be average income earners, and are paying the minimum monthly payments on several credit cards they use to keep up with who they think are the Joneses, who are probably just as broke.

In contrast, many of us earn more money than we realize. There are plenty of people who live well on much less money than many might imagine. How do they do it? They use a budget, they only spend their discretionary income, and they drive a nice model vehicle, but one that might be a few years older, one they purchased when it was already several years old. In some circles it is a sign of “old money” to drive a more than 10-year-old Volvo or Mercedes. Your friends and neighbors might assume you drive the older model car because you are smart with your money and not cash-poor while trying to impress.

At Joseph Wrobel, Ltd., we want to give you the insight into smart financial decisions so you have a good financial future, and worry less about the Joneses and lottery winners.

Changing your mindset and habits with money and budgets is important to success after bankruptcy. If you lived on credit cards before, the bankruptcy wiping out those bills, may free up enough money so that you can live on cash income instead of credit. Instead of paying interest money to the banks every month, try paying yourself, putting money aside in a savings account, so you have an easier time when you find a great deal on that 10-year-old E-Class.

Joseph Wrobel, Ltd. helps people get control of their finances and a fresh start at financial freedom. The firm’s website contains informative videos about financial issues as well as bankruptcy protection for families who want a fresh start.

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[i] The Wall Street Journal, Why You Might Go Bankrupt If Your Next-Door Neighbor Wins the Lottery, by Ben Leubsdorf, Feb. 16, 2016.

[ii] The Daily Caller, Neighbors of Lottery Winners Might Be At Risk of Bankruptcy, by Carly Rolph, Feb. 16, 2016.

Financial Fitness: Develop frugal habits to save money and live well

A wise parent tells their children, “It’s not how much money you can earn, what matters is how much you can save.” We can all remember the first time we started making more money and had discretionary spending power for the first time. Did you buy a new car, clothes you wanted or take a vacation? Did you start an IRA and start skimming off the top of your paycheck for a rainy day? Most of us spend money on things that make us feel good, and experts say we make most of our purchase decisions based on emotion and later we justify them with logic. While saving money and going without new things may not seem very exciting at first glance, the financial security that comes along with good habits is something that we can all use to not only protect us from loss, but also to propel ourselves into financial success in the future.

The best part of the following frugal life tips is that you do not have to change your lifestyle to save money and be ready for life’s curveballs.

10 ways to spend less and live well:

  1. Make a budget. If someone put you on the spot and asked how much of your monthly income you spend on food, transportation or entertainment, would you be able to answer the question? Many of us budget by spending until we run out of money and hope we can make it to the next paycheck. Some of us run low on money and buy out half the grocery store, and end up with more food than we need. It takes time and practice to make a budget and stick to it. Even if it takes a dozen tries, keep working on figuring out exactly how much we really need for monthly expenses and learning how much we really have to put away and save for the future.
  2. Use a grocery-shopping list. Those impulse buys are tempting! Food also looks better when you go to the grocery store on an empty stomach. Never go to the grocery store hungry because you are more likely to buy more than you need and everything looks good. Spending the time to make a grocery store list before you head to the market will help you buy what you really need and avoid coming home with too much produce that could spoil. Sticking to your grocery list is a good exercise in financial discipline.
  3. Get into the coupon game. Cutting coupons can be a fun game when you pretend each piece of paper is money. If you receive a newspaper, even a Sunday paper, full of coupons, flip through them, compare them to your grocery list, and see where you can save some money. Be careful however, and do not use the excuse of cost-savings to buy more than you need. Similarly, just because a jacket at the mall is 50 percent off, does not mean you need to buy it if you already have several good jackets at home.
  4. Buy cost-saving alternatives. We often buy the items we like and that which we are accustomed. If we look around and try new things, it is possible there are other options out there that cost less and are just as good. Take buying salmon, for example, a grocery store chain brand of frozen wild salmon can be just as tasty and healthy as the fresh salmon in the deli. If you can develop the habit of pulling a salmon steak from the freezer and defrosting it in the refrigerator overnight, your grocery store dollar is worth more money.
  5. Pack a lunch. If you spend money eating out for lunch every day, not only are you spending extra money, you also have less control over what you are eating. Saving money by bringing a lunch to work is a frugal win and can be healthier too. Forget the soggy sandwiches in a paper sack and invest in good containers and portable lunch items because you will save money quickly by bringing your lunch. By the way, this does not mean you have to be chained to your desk; find somewhere you enjoy to relax and enjoy your lunch-break.
  6. Buy used items. Plenty of folks buy used furniture on Craigslist and find great pieces while saving money. Buying used cars on eBay is another way to avoid the overhead of a retail store/dealer. When the alternative is to buy new from a store and put it on a credit card, gently used items can be twice as affordable. If you can save a decent down payment, consider an auto loan from a local credit union, buy a used car from a private party, and get more for your money.
  7. Shop and save on utilities. With the deregulation of electric companies, there is more competition on the marketplace than ever. There are several consumer websites helping consumers find the best deals on the utilities and services. Doing some research and making phone calls to the cable, Internet and television providers can lead to significant savings, even if it means changing providers.
  8. Make your own popcorn and get into Netflix. Going to the movies is fun, but it is also a habit, often an expensive one. For the price of a small box of popcorn at most theatres, you can sign up for Netflix or a similar streaming video service, assuming you have the right technology to play Internet on your television. Buying popcorn at the grocery store and saving gas money and avoiding the high price of movie theatre tickets is a good way to save money and relax in the convenience of your home, which you probably spend good money keeping up.
  9. Host get-togethers with friends and family. Easy and affordable entertainment options include inviting people over to your home for a game, movie or simply social occasion. If you suggest your guests please bring either something to eat or drink you really do not have to spend much money, and your contribution is the use of your home and the effort to clean before and after. We do not need an expensive restaurant to enjoy one the good company of others.
  10. Set cost savings goals and reward your success. When you consciously work on these frugal financial success techniques, estimate the money you would have otherwise spent on the expensive alternatives. You might be surprised how much more you have and the fun times you enjoy on less money. Consider your success in savings and treat yourself to a night out at a new restaurant or go to a movie at the new theatre in town, and you may notice, when you do so less frequently, it is even more fun. Nevertheless, you also might want to treat yourself by taking the money you saved and invest it in your future!

Joseph Wrobel, Ltd. helps people get control of their finances and a fresh start at financial freedom. The firm’s website contains informative videos about financial issues as well as bankruptcy protection for families who want a fresh start.

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